Love is a very done away feeling sometimes. We only talk about how much we love each other and why isn't the other person reciprocating in the same way, as we are.
Sometimes it is very easier said than done, but relationships just like paper can be crushed very easily, just like a piece of note which you think you didn't write well or is not in accordance to what you want to write.
We do crib or whine about a person going away from our lives. Is it so easy ? Just blaming a person doesn't help the cause. It is very important to also realise that may be you weren't keeping that person happy enough or may be that relationship was not fulfilling their demands and they weren't satisfied with what they had with you. It is not always cheating, it is also about being happy. And everyone just wants to be happy. But then again stabbing someone and getting happiness is not worth the happiness. Sometimes if you are leaving things/people/memories behind, it is important to not only prepare yourself but also the person whom you are leaving behind (now why did I mention 'person' because it is a living thing). I personally feel it is not fair to discriminate and be situationally selfish in life. If you need time, so does that other person. So learn to be honest and brave enough to tell them, if you really want to leave a person, otherwise don't.
Today when I am trying to realise architectures of life, I find happiness is just a mere thought or a practice which our brain stimulates to. It is the habit that you get in to which makes things tougher to let go. May it be talking to your GF for 3 years and then all of a sudden not getting to talk to her as per your wish, or may be working on a I Mac 27 " and suddenly getting a sucked up laptop to do all your work. It is very simple, the more addicted you get to anything the more prone you are of getting cocked.
Life does offer a lot of love and success as and when you deserve it. We are greedy and we always have this "dil maange more" (our hearts want more) policy.
We need to have faith on life and most importantly God. As much as he gives shit, he also takes care of it too when you do the right things. And as I always say " be happy and content with what ever you have, because it is what you deserve at that particular point of time. Somehow, somewhere people are in a more cockier situation than you."
God bless. Good Night. :)
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